B and I took the opportunity to stay downtown at a guest house and do some well deserved shopping... (me mostly!) beads, LUSH stuff, and a delicious meal here and there. B said "too bad we couldn't stay a little longer!"... hmm... maybe he's learning to let go a bit...
A decision was made to find another soul's headstone..as she was a bit of a family mystery, and there's always a few of those. Jessie was Bruce's grandmother...whom he never met...she died before he was born, yet she bore 3 children.. all males. All of whom did not speak much of her. (1 brother died in the war)
We found her burial plot under the name Elliott...not Brown, and did a small tribute to a woman forgotten by all... left a few biodegradeable red tulips...and somehow felt she achieved some recognition for being. Strange...as I don't really believe in burial plots..yet because of this families burial plots...we were able to seek her out. Food for thought for our own family.
We welcomed M into our life up in OS and had a fine time together.. Uncle B...showing her the sites... Aunt L... being shown new music venues and sharing stories... Cats...welcomed M as well..like she was one of us... quite interesting to watch. Good to have spent some time with you M... You have much to offer...
M and L getting a good-bye hug...
Hope we keep in touch .. and share our life journey's..
Man, the sticks behind our heads...are my 'Rose of Sharon' shrub...and in less than a month's time and the heat of ole sol.... we have leaves blooming now~ There's winter damage, yet the sticks survive!!
Cousins... tried to connect up and share a few moments.. Each following their own life's agenda's...
Families come in all sizes, configurations, and dynamics... and I think ours is one I'm glad to be in...
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